Peace of mind

1:  Can you help me?

4:  Yes of course.

1:  I am consumed with feelings for someone who doesn’t have them for me.

I have trouble sleeping and wake up aroused.

I have no choice but to think about her and when I do I am flooded with physical desire for her.

This is “in love” right?

4:  You know that sexual desire changes and what you are feeling now may fade away?

1:  Yes I know craving isn’t love, but it isn’t as simple as that.

4:  What do you think triggered it this time?

1:  I don’t know.

4:  Pain is attracted to pain because it wants more of it.

1:  I’m not sure I agree with that.  It’s recognition of something in another, a similar frequency or whatever you want to call it.

I suppose if you see similar expression in another, empathy can create feelings of closeness.

4:  Can you express your feelings to her?

1:  It’s not possible or helpful to be open with her, she has her own life and I want her to be happy.

4:  Examine whether that is really true, or are you being fearful?

1:  No, it’s not possible, selfish even.

4:  Then this is an opportunity for you to practice love with non-attachment.

1:  Doesn’t sound very romantic.

4:  Love is giving, complete, the source of everything.  Love doesn’t need to crave anything.

This is where peace and serenity reside.

1:  Sounds like you’re saying I should not get too close to anyone or need or miss anyone.

It sounds unnatural, uncaring.

4:  Love is not conditional on the circumstances in this world.  Let your heart break, don’t be afraid, don’t struggle, you will find that nothing is ever lost.

1:  I don’t know what you’re talking about.

4:  Yes you do.

Be still, radiate love, your true nature beyond the conditioning of your mind.

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